When is that moment?

When is that moment in which you know love is real? Is when you look at that other person across from you, and can't imagine a life without them? When you look into their eyes, and you can't remember a time when they weren't there. When you upset them and it feels like you hurt yourself along with them. Perhaps its different for everyone, and sometimes, maybe you don't know, until they are no longer there. You never know what is, until it is no longer. It is such a cruel truth, that you never realize what you have, until it is no longer with you. So many make that mistake, perhaps its there for us to learn. To learn not to repeat our mistakes, help us to make better choices, to reflect on who we are, to plant that mirror at our feet, and take a good look at who we are. If we don't like what we see, how can we expect others to do the same? So when is that moment? Don't try and hide it from the one you love, nothing worse than loving someone and never telling them. Better to let it out and be known, than to live with what might have been. At least you can have comfort in knowing you tried. So brings us back to that question, when is that moment, when we pour our hearts out to the other? When we realize that this person before you is the "one"? So I ask you, when is that moment?